MY HUSBAND CHEATED ON ME; AND HAS A 3-YEARS DAUGHTER???
Hello,
I get very emotional with this, but my husband has cheated on me, and
now has a 3-year-old daughter, his girlfriend has tells him I will tell
your mom if you ever dared to leave me and your daughter, and he doesn't
want his mom to know, not to get into problems with her
Two years ago, on a Thursday, this woman came to my house with the little girl and told me and my kids about everything, and he was there while we were talking, I wasn't really shocked because I was expecting something like that due to my husband's weird actions during that time.
Anyway the only reason I staid with him was because of my kids, I didn't want them to get upset because we were indeed a happy family, so I just decided not to talk to my husband.
A few months later things were back the same, but I had suspicious that he was still talking to her, I didn't make a big deal of it because I wasn't sure
Now six days ago, he went to BUKOBA to do some work, while he was there I was looking at his girlfriend's Whatsapp picture and it was their daughter at the BUKOBA - Bus station, I got really mad, but I was like, maybe its a coincidence, so it fine, but then I opened his email (he doesn't know that I know the password) and I saw a booking with her name to BUKOBA (she doesn't live there) and a hotel booking with both their names, I got really mad, that was only two hours before he came back, then I told him about what I know and of course he started lying and lying and lying till I was completely fed up with it
Anyway I haven't talked to him since five days, and I didn't sleep in our bedroom
Now last night he came home with a 44 thousand Rolex that he bought for me! It was really beautiful and I felt sorry for him, he wants to get things back on track, I said thank you, then I went up and started crying, he made me confused, his cheating and actions show me that he doesn't care, but the look on his eyes says something else
So last night I still didn't sleep in our bedroom, and I feel guilty, what do you think I should do?
Should I forgive him??
Although I know that this thing is endless!! Sorry for the much talk.
Two years ago, on a Thursday, this woman came to my house with the little girl and told me and my kids about everything, and he was there while we were talking, I wasn't really shocked because I was expecting something like that due to my husband's weird actions during that time.
Anyway the only reason I staid with him was because of my kids, I didn't want them to get upset because we were indeed a happy family, so I just decided not to talk to my husband.
A few months later things were back the same, but I had suspicious that he was still talking to her, I didn't make a big deal of it because I wasn't sure
Now six days ago, he went to BUKOBA to do some work, while he was there I was looking at his girlfriend's Whatsapp picture and it was their daughter at the BUKOBA - Bus station, I got really mad, but I was like, maybe its a coincidence, so it fine, but then I opened his email (he doesn't know that I know the password) and I saw a booking with her name to BUKOBA (she doesn't live there) and a hotel booking with both their names, I got really mad, that was only two hours before he came back, then I told him about what I know and of course he started lying and lying and lying till I was completely fed up with it
Anyway I haven't talked to him since five days, and I didn't sleep in our bedroom
Now last night he came home with a 44 thousand Rolex that he bought for me! It was really beautiful and I felt sorry for him, he wants to get things back on track, I said thank you, then I went up and started crying, he made me confused, his cheating and actions show me that he doesn't care, but the look on his eyes says something else
So last night I still didn't sleep in our bedroom, and I feel guilty, what do you think I should do?
Should I forgive him??
Although I know that this thing is endless!! Sorry for the much talk.